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Hecate and the Beloved Dead

In the vast pantheon of ancient gods and goddesses, Hecate stands as a unique figure, a powerful deity whose dominion includes the enigmatic realm of the restless dead. As we embark on this exploration, we'll uncover Hecate's role as a guardian of those who have passed and delve into how modern devotees can call upon her to continue this essential work. We'll also explore the profound practice of ancestor work, where the living connect with their forebears through Hecate's guidance.


Hecate, often depicted as a goddess of the night, crossroads, and magic, has been revered throughout history for her multifaceted nature. One of her lesser-known yet deeply significant roles is her guardianship of the restless dead. These spirits, often caught in the liminal space between life and the afterlife, find solace and guidance in the presence of Hecate.





One of Hecate's most renowned roles is that of a psychopomp, a guide of souls. In this capacity, she eases the transition of souls from the mortal realm to the afterlife. As a guardian of the crossroads, she stands at the threshold between life and death, ensuring that the spirits of the departed find their way.


The restless dead, a term often used to describe spirits who have not found their final resting place, are under Hecate's protection. These spirits linger in a state of unrest, whether due to tragic circumstances, unfulfilled desires, or a lack of proper funerary rites. Hecate's role is to guide and care for them, offering them solace and the opportunity for resolution.


Modern devotees of Hecate continue to seek her guidance and assistance in working with the restless dead. Through invocations, rituals, and offerings, they establish connections with this ancient goddess and invite her presence into their lives.


We provide a detailed psychopomp invocation to Hecate, enabling modern practitioners to call upon her to guide restless spirits to the afterlife. This ritual helps create a bridge between the realms, inviting the spirits to pass peacefully under Hecate's watchful eye.


Modern devotees can engage in rituals designed to honor and care for the restless dead. These rituals, inspired by ancient practices, provide a sacred space for communication with these spirits. They involve offerings, invocations, and symbolic actions that resolve these spirits' lingering concerns.


In the realm of ancestor work, Hecate also plays a vital role. This practice involves establishing connections with one's forebears, seeking their guidance, and honoring their memory. As a guardian of the dead, Hecate facilitates this connection and supports the living in forging meaningful relationships with their ancestors.



We provide a step-by-step guide on how to set up an ancestor altar, a sacred space dedicated to connecting with and honoring one's ancestors. This altar serves as a focal point for communication and offers a physical representation of the bond between the living and the deceased.


Various offerings and symbols can be placed on the ancestor altar to facilitate communication with the beloved dead. From candles and incense to photographs and personal items, these symbols serve as conduits for love, remembrance, and guidance from the ancestors.


We explore Hecate's role as a guide in ancestor work. Devotees call upon her to help establish connections with their forebears, seeking her support in this sacred endeavor. Hecate's presence ensures that the interactions with the beloved dead are respectful and meaningful.


Hecate's role as a guardian of the restless dead and her involvement in ancestor work showcases her enduring significance in modern devotion. In this article, we have delved into the intricate tapestry of Hecate's dominion, her ability to guide souls, and her role in forging connections between the living and the deceased.


As we continue to call upon Hecate for her guidance, we acknowledge her as the bridge between realms, the compassionate goddess who eases the passage of the restless dead and strengthens our connections with our ancestors. With her presence, we find solace, resolution, and a deeper understanding of the profound interplay between life and death.


Rituals:

Psychopomp Ritual Honoring Hecate: Guiding the Departed's Soul


A psychopomp ritual, invoking Hecate as a guide for the departed soul, can be a powerful and meaningful addition to a funeral rite. Hecate's symbolism of illumination, transition, and guidance makes her an ideal figure for this purpose. Below is a step-by-step guide to performing a psychopomp ritual in honor of Hecate, along with a supply list.


Supplies:


Three black candles or torches

Matches or a lighter

An image or statue of Hecate

A small dish of salt

A white candle

A small bowl of water

A piece of paper and a pen

A small offering, such as a coin or a piece of food

Incense or herbs associated with Hecate (e.g., lavender, rosemary)

A bell or chime

A quiet and sacred space



Instructions:


Preparation:

Choose a quiet and sacred space for the ritual. Ensure that you won't be disturbed during the ceremony.

Set up an altar at the center of the space. Place an image or statue of Hecate at the center, with the three black candles or torches arranged in a triangle around her.

Light the white candle, which represents the divine light and purity, and place it on the altar near Hecate's image.


Cleansing and Purification:

Begin by purifying the space and yourself. Sprinkle a small amount of salt in a circle around the altar. As you do this, say: "With this salt, I purify and consecrate this space for our sacred work."

Light incense or herbs associated with Hecate to further purify the atmosphere and create a sacred ambiance.

Invocation:


Stand before the altar, take a few deep breaths, and center yourself. Focus your intention on guiding the departed's soul.

Recite an invocation to Hecate, calling upon her as a guide for the departed. You can use a traditional invocation or create a personalized one that resonates with your intentions. 


For example:

"Hecate, Enigmatic Guide of Souls,

In this moment of transition and transformation,

I invoke your presence and wisdom.

Guide [Name of the Departed] on their journey

Through the crossroads of the afterlife.

Light their path with your torches,

And keep them safe in your embrace."


Lighting the Candles:


Light the three black candles or torches one by one, starting from the left and moving clockwise.

As you light each candle, say: "I light this torch in the name of Hecate, our guiding light in the darkness."


The Departed's Name:

Write the name of the departed on a piece of paper.

Place the paper in the small dish of salt, symbolizing the purification and release of their spirit. Say: "I release [Name of the Departed] to the care of Hecate."

Prayers and Offerings:


Recite prayers or words of farewell to the departed. Express your wishes for their safe journey and the guidance of Hecate.

Offer a small coin or a piece of food as a symbolic offering to Hecate, signifying your gratitude for her guidance.

Water and Bell:


Sprinkle a few drops of water over the departed's name in the salt. This represents the blessings of purification and renewal.

Ring a bell or chime three times to announce the departed's journey and signal the guidance of Hecate.

Meditation and Visualization:


Close your eyes and take a moment to visualize the departed's soul as a radiant light. Visualize Hecate's torches illuminating their path as they move through the crossroads.

Envision the departed's soul peacefully guided by Hecate, leaving behind the earthly realm and entering the spiritual realm.

Closing and Thanks:


Express your thanks to Hecate for her guidance. Say: "Hecate, Enigmatic Guide, I thank you for your presence and guidance. May you continue to watch over [Name of the Departed] in their journey."

Extinguishing the Candles:


Extinguish the black candles or torches, starting from the right and moving counterclockwise. As you do so, say: "As the torches are extinguished, we release [Name of the Departed] to the embrace of Hecate."

Final Reflection:


Spend a few moments in quiet reflection, acknowledging the departed's journey and the role of Hecate as their guide.


Closing the Ritual:


Conclude the ritual by thanking Hecate once more and formally closing the sacred space. You can say, "Hecate, Enigmatic Guide, your presence is honored. I close this sacred space with gratitude."



This psychopomp ritual can be adapted to suit your personal beliefs and the specific wishes of the departed and their loved ones. It is a way to invoke Hecate's guidance and presence as a comforting and guiding force for the departed's soul as they transition to the afterlife. 



Ritual for Healing with Hecate: Honoring the Beloved Dead


Losing a loved one is a deeply emotional and often overwhelming experience. Grief can be a complex journey, and finding ways to heal and remember those we've lost is important. This ritual, involving Hecate as a guide, is designed to help individuals find solace and healing after the passing of a loved one.


Supplies:


A small table or altar.

A black candle.

A white candle.

A photograph or memento of your loved one.

Fresh flowers.

A small bowl of water.

A small bowl of salt.

A piece of paper and a pen.

A quiet, comfortable space.

Instructions:


Preparation:


Set up your altar or table in a quiet, comfortable space.

Place the photograph or memento of your loved one at the center of the table.

Position the black candle on the left side of the photograph and the white candle on the right side.

Arrange fresh flowers in a vase or on the table.

Place the bowl of water and the bowl of salt on the table as well.

Ensure you have some privacy and a peaceful environment for this ritual.

Invocation to Hecate:


Light both the black and white candles.

Begin by standing quietly before the altar.

Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and focus on the photograph or memento of your loved one.

Say the following or similar words: "Hecate, goddess of the crossroads, guardian of the restless dead, I invoke your presence. I seek your guidance in this time of healing and remembrance. Help me find solace and peace as I honor the memory of my beloved [Name of the deceased]. Guide their spirit and grant me the strength to heal."

Creating Sacred Space:


Imagine a sacred and protected space around you. Visualize a gentle, warm light surrounding you, providing comfort and safety.

Water and Salt Purification:


Dip your fingers into the bowl of water and sprinkle a few drops over the photograph or memento. As you do this, say, "With this water, I cleanse and purify this space and the memory of my beloved."

Next, dip your fingers into the bowl of salt and sprinkle a few grains over the photograph. Say, "With this salt, I cleanse and purify this space and the memory of my beloved."

Reflection and Writing:


Sit quietly before the altar and take some time to reflect on your memories of your loved one.

Use the piece of paper and pen to write a letter to your loved one. Express your feelings, your love, and your grief. Share any thoughts or messages that you wish to convey.

Communication with the Beloved:


Read the letter you've written aloud to the photograph or memento, as if you're speaking directly to your loved one. Feel their presence as you do this.

Offerings:


Place the fresh flowers on the table as an offering to your loved one. Speak words of love and remembrance as you do so.

Meditation and Connection:


Close your eyes and take some time for meditation. Visualize your loved one's presence, and imagine a warm, gentle light enveloping you. Feel their love and warmth.

Closing the Ritual:


Thank Hecate for her guidance and support.

Blow out the candles, starting with the black candle and then the white one.

Aftercare:


Keep the letter you wrote to your loved one. You can continue to write to them whenever you feel the need to communicate with them.

Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to grieve and heal at your own pace.

This healing ritual with Hecate provides a sacred space for remembrance and communication with your loved one. It offers an opportunity to express your feelings and find solace as you continue to navigate your grief journey. Remember that healing is a personal and ongoing process, and Hecate can serve as a compassionate guide along the way.



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Witchy Wednesday - And It Continues to Thin

This week for my Witchy post, I wanted to share a couple of pictures that I have taken around the house.  Since we started the rehab the spirits have been restless.

Saturday I was doing some yard clean up and I had encounters with several spirits. Usually when rehab begins or when you start work on a house the spirits let you know. Miss Rose is no exception.  She lived in the house for years, surviving 2 husbands. I have seen them walk around the yard before. We are also directly in line to the march on Goldsboro during the Civil War so needless to say we have a lot of activity.  This week with the veil thinning, the activity has been over the top.

Here are a few photos of my area this week.  What do you think?

This is our hallway. The master bedroom is to the right of the hall at the end.  We had to hang a "portal" mirror there to stop the mischief that was happening when we first moved into the house. Since I removed the portal the activity has been really strong. What do you think?

Photo Credit - Renee Sosanna Olson
This is a shot of the lot looking towards the road.  The last owner of the property had her husband die in the middle of the night. While we have been parked here, we have had our dogs just randomly start barking for no reason. I have sat outside and I can feel him walking here.  I'm getting my apples ready.  I won't take his space, but I do want him to be at peace.

Photo Credit - Renee Sosanna Olson
How is your Samhain coming along?  What's your month looking like?  Feel free to share your photos!

Witchy Wednesday - Thinning of the Veil

Usually by this time I have the ancestor altar in full switch.  Candles, updated photos, flowers. Usually I have my photos taken and submitted to altar projects and I'm completely set for Samhain. This year is proving to be an exception. With the remodel of the house and our plans to move things have taken a turn for the "Huh?". (laughing) I may even start experimenting with vlogging.  I have been working with the video a bit more and I think I may look to test that out as we start making more progress for our move.

Over the last two weeks we have slowly sold off the majority of what we own. We are living full time in the RV now and getting set in our routine. My ancestor altar is only inches away from me every day now, instead of being across the room in my office. I have no pictures or flowers. Just a box of incense and a cat from time to time. Meanwhile, I think I have been more in touch with spirits over this time period than any other time in my life. With all the construction in the house it is a buzz with activity. Yesterday a closet door swung open while I was talking to Eli.

We have so much more work on the house to do and with me working full time, I'm not sure that I'll have the ability to do much more than seeing my altar and thinking of them. Sometimes you have more, sometimes less.

What are you doing to honor the dead this year?

I'm already having so much contact I'm really looking forward for any messages this year. I plan to sit and actively listen over the next two weeks to see what is coming.  I am having more vivid dreams which leads me to believe there's someone out there wanting to chat. Hopefully I'll have a visit.

Looking forward to what life has in store for me. Changes they are a coming.


Death and Dying in Reality

De mortuis nil nisi bonum - (“Of the dead, nothing unless good.”)


We hear this spoken usually after someone who was not a nice person dies.  I read a blog post recently that had the following quote:

"You should have got your criticism in when they were still alive, and preferably, while they still had some power. We don’t speak ill of the dead because it’s not just distasteful: it’s cowardly."  -Source

Well, while I get the gist of that.  I am completely one who will indeed speak my mind when presented with the opportunity.  Now that doesn't mean  I'm going to spread rumors, run someone down I have blocked on social media while professing some sort of spiritual superiority.  What it does mean that I am not going to support someone who I feel has their feet firmly placed in racism, bigotry or any negativity at all when they stand to the world professing spiritual awareness.  It means that while I will work within the bounds of professionalism, if someone comes to me me looking for what what you have to offer, I will direct them to someone else who has less baggage.  That's just a fact.  Now, that being said, why would I treat the dead any different? 

Back in 2011 I entered a blog contest to win a copy of Christian Day's Witches Book of the Dead. I wrote about my cousin Tony, who passed away while I was living in California.  His brothers had moved him while he was passed out and bound him to a stop sign at a three way crossroad near my house with plastic wrap as a joke.  He never regained consciousness.  The police ruled his death an accident. When the book arrived I got to page 137, The Ritual of the Crossroads the way Hecate is described as being at the crossroads, that point where the worlds of the living and dead can often meet was a powerful visualization for me.  

With the coming of Samhain many groups on social media are having discussions around ancestor altars and who should or should not be included on them.  My altar has an assortment of photos, trinkets and possessions of those who have moved on.  This is a very spiritual time for me, when I call upon those who have moved on to send energy and knowledge in exchange for my respecting and willingness to learn.  

There are those who are intentionally left off the altar.  I do not want their energy or their knowledge.  I knew them too well in physical world.  They caused too much pain here in this life to be honored in anyway in their passing.  

When starting your ritual altar on don't feel that you have to do anything like one book or one person says.  This is a personal space for you to honor those who have moved on from this life.  It is a time for you to do work that is important to you.  Don't feel like you have to add people or include energy that you're not comfortable with.

In my discussions, I found that some think they have to include a certain person for fear of them creating havoc in their home because they have "disrespected the dead".  Personally I believe that not all dead are worthy of respect.  Not every one who has crossed over is someone that should be honored no different than if they were here in the physical realm.  If you have unruly dead making mischief in your house you need to take control of the situation and move them out, not give in and place them in higher regard.  

Death is a transition to the next part of the energy exchange.  It can be sad but it should be looked at as a natural part of life.  Working with the dead is about listening and learning.  We should listen twice as much as we speak in order to learn as much as we can. We should also learn that our time on this planet is limited.  If we want to have others not speak ill of us after we move on, then maybe we should be a little more considerate of others while we have that opportunity.  Not the other way around.

I'd love to see what altars you create or what rituals you do working with the dead this week.  Feel free to post here or find me on social media at Tsu or Facebook.


Ancestor Altar - Photo Credit - Renee Sosanna Olson


Pagan Blog Project 2013 - H is for Haunting


A haunting is usually a replay of something from the past.  Most hauntings are residual hauntings.  Meaning one moment in time gets replayed over and over.  One example of this might be of a farmer going outside to milk cows.  Usually it is something that the person did in their life over and over, and it’s like the needle is stuck on replay.    

When we started to remodel our carport to turn it into a kennel building for our dogs, hubby and I experienced a lot of residual paranormal activity.  On several separate occasions hubby saw an older gentleman walking first into the closet, which we used to store yard tools, then out the back door into the yard.  When I saw him, he was usually walking around in the back yard, wearing a blue baseball cap.  He never noticed us and seemed to be going about his daily chores.  The idea of residual hauntings is much like the “Stone Tape” theory.  Basically it means that the surroundings, trees, rocks and even buildings record the energy of an event, and under certain circumstances the brain can pick up these “tapped incidents” and the eyes see them.  When dealing with a residual haunting, the ghost or entity will not interact with the outside world.  It simply walks or moves through the paces of a previously completed pattern.

Now, at the same time, you can also have what is called an intelligent haunting.   Intelligent haunts are those which the energy or entity actually interacts with the living world.  This can range from knocking things off a shelf to having responses to questions.  I have had three incidents where I interacted with the energy here. 


The first time was when we first moved into our bedroom.  The end of my hall way seems to be the source of the energy.  I almost feel as though it is a conduit for the paranormal energy coming into and going out of the house.  On each side of the end of the hallway are doors.  One leads out offices and the other to our bedroom.  Originally when we set up the bedroom we had the head of the bed against that wall, with the foot facing east.  At night when I’d lay down, I’d feel a face come around the corner from the end of the hall and stare right into my face in a silent scream.  It became so worrisome that I had to move the bed to the opposite side of the room.  Now my head is pointing towards the east and the foot of my bed to the west in the direction of the door.
The next time I was sitting in the Kitchen and was doing research on the lady (Mrs. Mantha Rose) who owned the house before me.  She passed away and her family put the house up for sale.  I was reading her obituary in the local paper archives when I felt a presence in the room.  As I was reading her obituary out loud, I looked over my shoulder and there was a man standing by the pantry.  I said the first name Perry Brock and the entity shook his head no.  I then read Thurman Rose and he nodded in the affirmative and disappeared.

The final time I was sitting in my office working and I heard a loud crash from our bedroom.  I went inside the room and found my jewelry box flipped neatly upside down on the floor in front of the bed.  It had been sitting on the dresser.  It have flown 3-4 feet through the air and landed with open face down on the floor.  I started to pick my stuff up and I noticed that hubby’s mother’s ring was on the floor behind the bed.  It was a good 2 feet farther away than the rest of the contents of the box.  When I began putting my stuff back in the box I noticed that my amethyst crystal had shattered completely.  I've often felt the presence of energy here in the house and have come to accept that others may live here and it is OK.

Today I have my ancestor alter set up with photos of those who have passed.  I've included the ring that was tossed behind the bed, just to see if there is some energy associated it with. 

Photo Credit - Renee Olson

Photo Credit - Renee Olson

I make offerings to the dead on Samhain and pay my respects throughout the year.  I completely believe that hauntings are a real thing and usually aren't something to be afraid of.

Namaste & Blessed Be
Sosanna
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